Most people can punch but can’t take a punch… they can gossip, hurt and sometimes destroy but cannot handle it when it is dished back to them… indeed many simply do not want to heed advise until they also experience the pain of having it done to them!
You allow judgment into your life every time you judge others. To prevent this negativity coming to yourself, it’s best to stop dwelling on others’ darkness. Instead, pay attention to their strengths and appreciate your own vulnerability.
It will help if you look at the positivity of others whilst appreciating your own fallibility. This way you will invite major blessings into your life.