Beware … misery loves company so note that the haters are the ones who say ‘you can’t’ and ‘you won’t’ and are probably the same ones scared that you will.
Tag Archives: LIFE LESSONS
The movement from love with respect and trust to dislike with wariness or even hatred is one of the most dangerous emotional states to be in!
I run a blinkered life in many ways. I focus on my mission, back my instincts and maintain my integrity!
The key is to run ones own race and top caring about what others are doing.
The only question that should matter is …. Am I progressing ?
There is something totally illogical about sharing your life with another person and yet it is cemented and made meaningful when it is based on trust!
When you are standing barefoot in murky waters it is better to stand still if you want to see the fish!
The time to keep your cool is when things are going wrong and no one is prepared to act yet want to take control when it is almost too late.
Just remember it is as important to want someone you cannot have than it is to have someone you don’t want!
A person who cannot say “Thank you” or “I am sorry” is as bad as a person who has halitosis or body odour but does not know it.
There are times when you must stop, stand still, look around at the people in your life and then decide whether all that you give them (not necessarily monetarily) is being appreciated or worth it. We are created selfish and only tend to reciprocate when we care or are extremely well brought up.
If you are in doubt weigh your efforts not against what they give back but whether you are giving as much time to yourself as you give to them!
Learn to love yourself more and to allocate more or enough “Me” time to everything you do!
We must always do what we believe to be right and proper even if others do not do the same thing or live up to the same standards.
Some may go to public prayer groups in churches and mosques and yet do nothing to help a relative or stranger in need. Worse may be when you reach out and help a stranger in desperate need and yet their own wealthy family do nothing.
Rather than be dispirited remember that your loving kindness is part of your makeup and perhaps mission on earth so don’t be discouraged .. simply keep the faith!